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My Word for the Year. It’s Not What You Think.

So while everyone is out there choosing a “word” for 2018, I was starting to feel like maybe I should too.

I pondered for a bit. There was the usual, “focus” and “fearless” and “intentional,” just to name a few.

I thought about some for myself.



“Simple” (ha!)

Nope. None of them seemed to fit.

And then it hit me. Like a ton of bricks.




Not your typical word of the year.

But as I thought about it, this is exactly what I want.

I had been pondering holiness so much lately. And how our purpose is to pursue holiness; not worldly, fluffy “happiness.” And sometimes holiness means we are going to struggle and walk through difficulty. But it is ultimately because God wants us to be holy and not happy. (Although, true joy will be found in holiness.)


“To live a holy life is to live a life in conformity to the moral precepts of the Bible and in contrast to the sinful ways of the world.

It is to live a life characterized by the putting off of your old self…and putting on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness (Eph.4).”-Jerry Bridges, The Pursuit of Holiness

I had even been repeating this word over and over in my mind lately when I found myself wanting to nitpick and complain. I’d say in my mind, “Be holy. Be holy.”

Now, for some of you, you may think I am off my rocker.  Some of us have a distorted view of even what holiness means. So let me explain.

It does NOT mean I am trying to live a life “holier than thou.” In fact, holiness has nothing to do with what I can do.

It is about God changing me from the inside out. It is about sanctification. It is a process.

“The most basic meaning of the word is to be “set apart” or “dedicated” to God—to belong to God.

“To be a disciple of Jesus Christ requires nothing less than death to our fallen, egocentric selves in order that we might live in and for him. “For whoever wants to save his life will lose it,” says Jesus, “but whoever loses his life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, yet forfeit his soul?” (Mark 8:35-36). To be holy means that all we are and all we have belongs to God, not ourselves and that every aspect of our lives is to be shaped and directed toward God.”- From

And that is especially why I chose the word, “holy.”

Because those other words for the year generally focus on me, me, me and what I can do. But holy focuses on Him. And what He can do through me.

I can’t “make myself” holy. Sure, I can “act” holy. Or try to “be holy.”

But true holiness comes from God transforming me. Setting me apart to do His will.

And that is EXACTLY where I want to be this year and always.

All Christians are called to be holy. It is a requirement. But I believe that it gets drowned out by all of the self-help noise and focus on what we can do for ourselves. So my focus now will be on what God has called me to be. Losing my life, to find it in Him.


One of the next books on my list to read this year is Holiness by JC Rylee. I am really looking forward to it. I want to stop looking within and look outside of myself, to Jesus.


Yes, that is my word for the year.

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  • Reply Kerrye January 2, 2018 at 12:41 am

    I’ve been having the same thoughts. Every word just felt so selfish: me, me, me focused. The word that fell hard on me is “SELFLESS”. A year focused more on Christ and others. Matthew 22:37-39. Quite the challenge…

    • Reply Karen DeBeus January 2, 2018 at 3:22 am

      I love that. thanks for reading and sharing your thoughts!

  • Reply Pam S January 4, 2018 at 1:14 pm

    LOVE this. Thank you for always keeping Christ at the fore-front. Have you read the Holiness of God by RC Sproul? I just finished a few days ago and it’s pretty life changing. Blessings to you and your family in the new year. Keep up the wonderful work 🙂

    • Reply Karen DeBeus January 4, 2018 at 1:33 pm

      Thank you. Yes, but a long time ago. Adding that to my list to re-read. Happy New Year and thanks for reading!

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